Far too many girls think they can find their worth in what they wear (or what they don't wear; as the case may be). They seem to have garnered somewhere that who they are is defined by the clothes they wear. They also seem to have the gross misconception that they will only find a guy (you know...the one they want to marry) if they are dressed "hot" enough. Honey, if you're looking for a man by the way you dress, then you're not going to find the kind of guy who wants to MARRY you!
It's so hard to get past these pre-conceived notions. They're practically everywhere: TV, magazines, movies, the internet, books, billboards, and even on songs on the radio. It's literally everywhere. In the summer, it's at every neighborhood pool &/or beach!
What does this do? How are we, as women, and our daughters preceived by men when we dress modestly? What about when we don't?
Alex and Brett Harris, the younger brothers of Joshua Harris (I Kissed Dating Goodbye), created the "Rebelution". Through this site and its forums, they came up with the idea to do a modesty survey. They gathered questions from several hundred women and came up with a final 148 which they then presented to over 1600 guys over the course of 20 days.
This provides an overview of the survey and an explanation of how the questions were worded and answered. The final results can be found here. You can then search by swimsuit, etc. to find answers in a particular subject.
I commend these guys for providing this survey and making the results public!
How we dress really does affect those around us. It can often tell what's important to us. Granted, dressing modestly doesn't have to be out of style. You're prefectly capable of dressing modestly yet still being "in style".